What an interesting day this has been! It's Wednesday here in Saipan. Monday and Tuesday I was in Guam, a short hop by airplane into another world. Guam is big, busy, and...I can't think of another "b" word, so I will go with beautiful. I stayed with beautiful people, that is! The military Reserve unit here on Saipan was unable to renew and update my military ID card, so I had to make a trip to Guam to get it done. I had been procrastinating because I couldn't perfectly imagine how I was going to get from the airport to the Air Base and back to where I would be staying the night without any idea of Guam's layout. When I go new places, I study and memorize maps well before I arrive on the ground. Yeah...they don't make maps anymore. You have to study Google maps, which just isn't the same as a good, old fashioned paper map you can make notes on and draw marker points on. Red Curry Thai Soup But I made it there and back, and had a GREAT time with n...
One year ago, I visited my daughter in Ashville, NC, and we went to the Biltmore where I walked the hallways in the basement and happened upon this lonely tree, illuminated by light coming from somewhere I could not see. I never could have imagined then what I would be doing twelve months later. In ten days, I leave for Saipan. Yes, I was there all summer, but it just didn't seem like quite enough time to get to know the place. So, I am going back. And I am going back small. By that I mean I have donated all my worldly goods, except for five boxes of memories my family needs to pass the torch of our family history to the next generation of storytellers, and three suitcases of things I think I need, clothes, books, an Isabel Bloom mourning dove my friends gave me after Larry died, and a pendulum clock I bought in Germany. I also mailed myself several flat-rate boxes of more books, the ones too heavy for a suitcase. Why so many books? I like books. But more than that, most...
Radical relocation happens to all of us sooner or later. What's a radical relocation? It could be something major like a move halfway around the globe or the untimely death of a spouse. It could be something more minor like giving up your bedroom to your Thanksgiving guests. One thing is true. Radical relocation entails displacement from your usual routine. We usually think of radical as something mega-BIG. Something that changes our world on a fundamental level. A radical relocation would then be a BIG TIME change in person, place or time. That certainly fits my world since 2016 when my husband unexpectedly died. But even small changes can be radical. Radical can just as easily apply to giving up your bedroom or eating spam by candlelight instead of roasted turkey because the electricity went out at exactly the wrong time. That's because the true issue in radical relocation is not the event itself, but how we process the event internally. Some find change easier than other...
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